Over the years MJ hasn’t been invited to many parties.  I know that some people didn’t want him there, for fear of the unknown.  There were actually a few that he was invited to but they just weren’t appropriate for him.  Recently he was invited to a classmates birthday party.  I was thrilled to see that it was at a bowling alley! Hallelujah it’s something that he has done before and really enjoys! I must admit that it will be a nice change of pace to feel comfortable and relaxed at this party.  I won’t have to worry about other kids making fun of him or asking questions like, “why does he talk like that” or “what’s wrong with him (these things have been said more than once)?” The adults hosting this party fully understand autism and everything that comes along with it.  I’m sure we’ll have a blast 😁🎉.  

#hecango

#thingspeopletakeforgranted

#partytime

It’s very important to always be prepared for whatever may happen with your child. There have been many times when a meltdown was prevented because I brought Mj’s favorite toy or snack along.  I never left the house without:

A juice box 

Crackers (usually gold fish)

MJ’s favorite “bouncy ball” or robot 

Favorite CD 

Fidget toy

Picture book 

MJ is almost 13 years old and I still always leave the house with at least a snack, earplugs, and his tablet. It has saved the day on occasion when we get stuck in traffic, have an unexpected delay, or a sudden change in plans.   

#alwaysbeprepared

#beproactive

#itwillkeepyoucalmaswell